Is it possible that someone take custody of my child without me knowing?

She could have filed for custody and lied about sending you copies of the paperwork. Was the paperwork signed by a judge? You will need a copy to...

I am 28 years old and my father was never in my life but was supposed to pay child support. I'm wondering if I as the child can

The debt is not owed to you, it is owed to (presumably) your mother. She would be the one to pursue it.

How can I file contempt of court

The clerk's office can help you with the procedural aspects of filing motions.

Custodial interference?

You will need to file a motion in the case to enforce your visits.

If I'm the father of a 1 yr old girl. Can the mother keep me from seeing or having visit with me on weekends?

You will need to file a custody case where you will have court orders as to custody, parenting time and child support.

Can i legally go pick up my kid ?

Unless there is something barring you from having your children (like a court order or cps prevention plan), parents rights are superior to...

Will my husband be charged with violation of dvo when I have attempted 2 times to amend it?

There is a no contact order against your husband and he violated it. You do not have authority to override the judge's order.

Theoretically you have to follow it forever.

Do I have to get an attorney to file a motion for visitation/custody?

You can always represent yourself and you do not have to get a lawyer.

My grandchild stays with me , and my son pays child support and it goes to the mother, what can.be done?

You need to speak with an attorney to see if you qualify for de facto status. You may be able to intervene in the case.