You need to contact each institution and lock the information.

You need to send them a cease and desist letter and block their number. This is not your circus, not your monkeys.

No. That account is not owned by you. . .

Nothing has changed your parenting order and it needs to be followed.

Ask if you can attend court by zoom or other electronic means.

Stay off drugs and follow the plan. . .

I don't think a judge will find that to be a good reason to deny parenting time.

You will not get her to follow the order of the court without filing for contempt. So you can take action that may accomplish something or worry...

The orders stand until they are changed, so mom still needs to pick the child up from Dad.

Sounds like a problem to me. .