If your husband isn't the kids father, then his parents aren't their grandparents. Also if husband isn't the father, there are no rights to sign...

No. The only way to terminate is if other parent's spouse is willing to adopt. You need to file a custody case to be able to exercise your rights.

Go through the child support office. If he's in IL they can find him.

Legally, you are all to follow the court's orders. It sounds like dau & father need to go to reunification therapy to work through their issues.

If you carry the insurance you will get the bill.

File criminal charges, locks on doors, perhaps a shelter for women and children.

You can prepare a new disclosure and file it to reflect the current circumstances.

No, you have to file your motion and then get discovery. Also CS rules have changed quite a bit in the last few years.

You have to be added into a custody case to gain custody a notarized document alone, is not adequate. You need to report the friend to CPS and...

One cannot simply "sign away their rights". The other parent's spouse would have to adopt the child, which would cause a termination. Your...