Without knowing more info it's impossible to answer. Info needed is whether this is the house you live in, is it a marital or non-marital in...

You need an attorney, it's that simple. Husband can't stop you from getting one and you are entitled to know your rights.

Especially because you want to move, it would be beneficial for you to have a formal consultation with an attorney to get all of your concerns...

I'm going with the items being gifts and belonging to son. You should write him a formal letter and give him reasonable choices on when he can...

You do not state whether you have an custody interest in the children, so without that information it is impossible to advise.

It's on her to make arrangements with you. I would seek modification so that she has to provide notification by a day/time certain so you can be...

It sounds inappropriate to me, especially since there is no adjudication of paternity. Not sure there is really anything you can do about it. I...

A vacation is whatever you deem it to be, even if that is staying home.

Yes. .

File a motion for contempt or show-cause. Get an expert to testify how his inaction is harming you.