Will I get in trouble with courts if I take money out of estate before probate is done?

You should consult with your attorney. Because under the circumstances you describe, you should be able to request a partial distribution.

Can I make my daughter the executor of my estate and she can do as will with property ? Or make it all to her in a will ?

You can make a will and dispose of your property however you like. However, you should consult an attorney about doing that.

Can I remove myself from the title of my mother's home?

You could file a quitclaim deed to remove yourself.

How is a 401k distributed to estate (and then heirs) when no beneficiary is named?

You need to consult with an attorney about the possible options available to you.

What can I do about property my half brother sold without anyone knowing?

You need to consult an attorney with the deeds, etc., that you are referring to so they can help determine if it is too late for you to do anything.

I assume you have an attorney assisting you, so you should consult with your attorney. Dependng on the circumstances, you may need to get court...

Can I get a title for a car if the title is in a dead mans name?

You may need to consult a probate attorney. A probate case had to be opened for him, so your attorney could ask the court to order title...

MMy husbands mom put a headstone with his name on it next to her headstone ?

Ultimately, your husband and you get to decide where/how you will be buried. If you are truly concerned about it, you should both make pre-paid...

How can I get my motorcycle my mom was storing for me at her house. She died with no will?

You need to follow up with the attorney for the estate. If there is no response from him in a reasonable time, then you should try filing a police...

Is $7,450 a reasonable amount to have been billed by an elder care attorney for the completion of a Medicaid application?

You need to cover all of that with your attorney. There may be an issue of her breaching her duty as guardian, which would allow you to recover...