The headstone is her property and she is free to put whatever she wants on it, whether you like it or not.

Can a married person appoint her daughter as Power of attorney without spouse knowing ?

Theoretically, you could, but I would not do that, for obvious reasons.

You need to consult with an attorney. Depending on the amount involved you may be able to proceed by a Small Estate Affidavit. Otherwise, you will...

My step dad passed away, my mother's name was never put on the deed to the house, how do i get the deed into my name, not hers?

You need to consult with a probate attorney, as depending on whether your stepfather had a will or not, there are several different wayts this can...

How would a parent go about getting guardianship/POA for their mentally challenged adult son

I am not sure what the question is. But the parent can file to seek guardianship.

my mother's home being resold by someone she bought it from she passed away January 26th it should be my home now she's passed

You need to take whatever your uncle is asking you to sign to an attorney.

How do I find out if my mother has been declared mentally. Incompetent ?

She probably hasn't been declared incompetent, b/c if she had, the current POA still would have no effect, as the guardianship would supersede...

You should consult an attorney. As POA he actually can't over ride his mother. And if he is restricting access to mother's other children, a...

It was okay to get a credit card in her name for making HER purchases. But, as, POA, you have no authority to use her funds for yourself. I would...

How should the jewelry be distributed?

Technically, that unsigned note would have no weight in the disposition of this property if the matter had to be decided by the court. However, it...