How can we find the will of a deceased person?

If you dad had a safety deposit box or something you can check there. But if you can't locate it you will have to proceed as if there is no will....

I would suggest going ahead and getting guardianship, especially because of his age.

Does my dad have to be at the hearing when I ask to be his guardian?

The court will usually require a letter from a doctor about their condition if they cannot attend the hearing. You can ask the court clerk what...

Can my father be removed from a lease due to incapacitation

That is really an issue for his girlfriend to deal with. As you stated, the state will require all his pension to go to the nursing facility, so if...

My mom and I bought a townhouse together. Our names are both on the deed. Sadly, she passed away. Should I remove her name?

Even if it is a survivorship deed you should probably file an affidavit of death so there is no question in the record of you being the sole title...

If someone is trying to use or have used your auto insurance policy for a claim and you didn't give them permission?What to do

It is not clear from your question what happened here. You need to consult an attorney in person to explain it and determine what you can do.

Is it a conflict of interest for the Guardian ad litem to run for family court judge while my case is still actively open?

The GAL represents the children's interests, and the proceedings are confidential. There should be no conflict.

How can I get Guardingship or DPOA over my husband.

You should consult with an attorney about obtaining guardianship over him.

The money should go into an account under the control of the court, so the money can only be used for her benefit.

As a beneficiaries on my mothers will ,do I need to consent on the sale of the house ?

You may want to consult with an attorney. Because big picture wise, selling the house now for less may be about the same as selling it later for...