How do I get my mother's estate PROBATED and how do I handle the grandson living in her house?

hire an attorney to open estate for your mother and have youselp appointed executor. your sister has stolen from your mother. seek return fo funds...

Bank of America sold the loan to a mortgage debt collector after sending me the 1099 A form. What can I do?

you are still liable for the mortgage balance not paid. contact a bankruptcy attorney to discuss.

Is there any legal recourse?

on the factural issues presented, no

sovereign defense will get you nowhere in court. hire a dui attorney to defend you.

yes.