There is a phrase in the legal world that states "with the burden comes the benefit". The DNA dad will aways be able to file paternity in a court...

How can I get my money back sense he isn't doing anything what so ever

2 weeks is completely reasonable. If he's avoiding you and your phone calls this soon, maybe you're not giving him time to get back with you. ...

I didn't tell the attorney what kind of custody visitation I wanted before he drew the papers, he decided what to put in there a

It depends on if the divorce has been finalized. If you hired the attorney, you need to go speak with him and get visitation explained to you. ...

Do I have the right to refuse paternity?

Sounds like a bunch of hog wash. An ex-wife can't make an ex-husband do paternity to determine who his sister is.

How can I get an adoption started with kids that are in my custody thru DHS.

DHS has a lawyer and social worker for the children. They can work all of that out, but it'd be faster if you hired your own attorney.

Is it legal for a lawyer to ask a client to buy electronics or cell phones for him, and what can she do to not but this for him?

This doesn't make a lot of sense. Your friend needs to sit down with an attorney and have a private conversation.

Is this legal for me to do?

You need to see a lawyer and discuss what HB585 can do for your son. Probably nothing since he got life without parole, but it's worth looking into.

Non adjudicated probation

You need to read the court order and find out. Also, if he's on reporting probation, ask the probation officer.

You need a lawyer on this pronto. Rarely does a 3rd reduce to a 2nd. And never does without a defense attorney.

Can I legally tell his brother to go away if I am married to my husband

It sounds like you and your husband need to have a serious talk about the situation. I don't know that the law can help if your husband doesn't...