This is to advise you what evidence the government has

Is it illegal for a 21 yr old to have a relationship with a 17 yr old in kentucky

This is not a crime in Kentucky . Hire an attorney to discuss this with your son.

My charges are in KY but I've fled to TN, what will happen and can I be extradited?

Once you are charged, the statute of limitations is tolled -- frozen --. You certainly can be extradited. Turn yourself in. It is better that way.

Can my exbf file a police report because I took a laptop his friend gave me and the dog that was a gift from my cousin?

Ignore him. I doubt judge would issue a warrant for this. It's a tool to get you back.

Probability of jail time

Pay the restitution but get an attorney on this one.

I was sentenced to 10 yrs and flattened my sentence. do I have to pay fines and fees. They have suspended my drivng license for

You will have to pay this. It doesn't seem fair but this is the law.

I have a question about I check I wrote that bounced

You will need to go to court on this one but without the victim appearing or because you paid it the case may be dismissed assuming you do not have...

If you're 18 and you said you had sex with a 15 year old and people are saying I can't go to jail in state law n tn

Well the legal answer is you are safe, but her parents could raise hell with her and suddenly you are looking at a non-consent sex which is rape....

Tried to find federal trial atty. from the Avvo list. First one I called could not take the call as he is in prison.

He (or she ) is gaining on the job experience.

What happens after the grand jury and detectives meet?

If this is in Nashville I suspected he has been indicted already. he should contact the detective and turn himself in or go to the warrant office...