MY question is do you we can fix that with no big issues we don't want her payee he wants here can we succeed?

I agree with the previous answer. SSA ultimately decides who your payee is, but you can have anyone apply.

I agree with the previous answer. One note of caution: make sure he pays it off directly to the lender. If he gives you the money, you deposit...

Can I get disability and welfare benefits sufficient to provide for my family? Do I qualify for disability?

I agree with the previous responses. Consult with a Social Security Disability attorney.

Social security admin has written a letter saying that person owes $8000 from overpayment on disability from 2010 - recourse?

I agree with attorney Pont. At a minimum, file a request for waiver.

I agree with the previous answers. Consult with an attorney who specializes in Social Security Disability.

How can I appeal my SS case when I never got a response mailed to me & per agency denial wasn’t able to be found in the system.

I agree with the previous answer and suggest contacting an attorney at once.

I agree with attorney Pont's response.

I agree with the previous answers. Contact your local SSA office first, then escalate appropriately.

Your question is a little unclear. Contact your local SSA field office for specific guidance on whether you are eligible for any benefits.

I agree with the previous answer. Contact your local department of vital records for your BC, and contact SSA for the replacement SS card.