I got a temporary restraining ex parte order put against me, does that mean I can't call my son even on days indicated Parent P?

Correct. You should retain an attorney so that this decision is not made final.

Probation violations

Unfortunately without knowing more there is not a lot of advice to give. I would suggest hiring her an attorney immediately.

Can I stop a guy who was charged with statutory rape in tennessee and charges were dismissed from getting visitation rights

You need to consult with a local family attorney immediately.

They can but there are also apps now such as Mobile Patrol and Vinelink that show who is incarcerated so that information is public.

Hire an attorney immediately and do not discuss this case online anymore.

What should I do about going 18 mph over the speed limit?

To avoid having your insurance rates go dramatically up I would contact a local speeding and traffic ticket attorney to fight it.

It sounds like you do. I would consult a local DUI attorney to ask for their opinion on this matter.

Is the affect of having a police report filed against you different for a person on parole rather than any other citizen?

It could if the police decide to press charges. That being said you should not have to live your life harassed by this person even if they are on...

This is probably going to be a very painful life lesson for you. I would first tell your parents about this mistake and then tell them that they...

I personally would. I would contact your attorney in California if you had one or contact one in Pennsylvania to help you with this.