How should I address this situation?

I know on occasion you can do an amendment to the COR and the judge will allow you to get your belongings that way. Your attorney may be able to...

What is the worst that can happen?

The worst that could happen is that they could revoke your probation and make you serve your entire sentence. However, that isn't likely for one...

Should we get separate lawyers

If the officer charged you separately and acknowledged that the marijuana was separate there would be no reason for you to point the finger at each...

What happens after municipal Judge finds probable cause at a prelim? Does case automatically go to Shelby county grand jury?

Typically, it takes 30-60 days to go to grand jury. It is up to the prosecutor whether or not to pursue the charges. Since the ex is pushing it...

What will they do

Well, it's not a crime. They can't even threaten you with any kind of prosecution which may be where you may have gotten the idea that it's...

Can I always end an at fault divorce case that I file in TN prior to the hearing date? If so, how do I withdraw my papers?

Her counter-claim would survive your dismissed petition. You would still be fighting a divorce even if you dismiss yours.

Can I give my rights up?

You can't just unilaterally give up rights. There has to be someone willing to take your place to ensure that the child is supported.

Can he take away our kids?

In Tennessee, if he stayed with you after the affair and he knew about it, he can't use it against you. Additionally, if it was before the divorce...

Typically DCS does not pull children out of the home for marijuana. If they did they'd have more children in custody than foster homes. You do not...

Why would they put him in foster care and not with his dad??

Father should file an intervening petition. It is true that mom has a say so especially if they were never married. He needs to legally establish...