Will I be able to force my wife to drop my last name during our divorce?

You cannot force her to change her name.

Re: Should I sign a release?

If any obligation is not yet complete - you probably shouldn't sign anything. BUT, that being said, without the full picture, you will not receive...

You could contact the Plaintiff's attorney and see if they'll work out a payment agreement with you in exchange for dismissing the lawsuit.

Can I relocate with my new husband

Tennessee has specific statutes regarding the relocation of a parent. You should seek a private consultation with an attorney to discuss your...

Does grandparents have rights to see their grandchildren?

Tennessee has a statute that authorizes grandparents to file a petition to seek visitation rights with grandchildren.

How can I take my baby mama to court? She's not letting me see my son and blocked me from any type of contact with her ,

You should consult with counsel. But in order to get any type of custody/visitation you need to file a complaint for custody and visitation. That...

Divorce

Consult with local counsel to determine your rights and evaluate your particular situation.

Is legal separation the best way to go for me. I live in Tennessee

It sounds like you have a complicated situation. The best way to get a good answer is to consult with a local attorney to advise you of your rights...

Can I sue my landlord for negligence?

You should consult with counsel. You could file a lawsuit for negligence. But an attorney would need to evaluate whether such a suit has any merit.

Do we have any legal recourse worth pursuing for any of this mess?!

Default judgments are very difficult to get rid of in TN. But that point aside, if you have hired counsel and that attorney has done nothing, you...