Do I have any recourse to sue the woman having an affair with my husband. It destroyed our 21 year marriage.

A few points: first, you may have a case for emotional distress if there was malice involved and the other woman was really awful, but was it her...

Do i have to testify against my husband

It's not up to you to drop the charges. It's up to the state. But you may have a right to invoke a marital privilege. It's best you hire an...

Should he change his laywer?

He is in the very early stages of the case. It's probably too soon to consider changing attorneys. Wait to see what happens at the arraignment...

When deciding custody for a child with parents who are minors, does the court ever look at the grandparents?

They could look at it and and may or may not be given a lot of weight depending on many other circumstances.

I did't file a responsive pleading to a motion for modification of custody and child support. Ask for continunace or argue case?

You need an attorney as these things get complicated. You've missed the deadline to oppose any motions. But be sure you show up to the court date....

Can I file adultery

It seems like you have enough to show adultery. Motive and disposition is all it takes.

It's up to the state to pursue the charges. And she may be forced to testify against you or she herself could face contempt charges (although...

Can my ex-wife sue me for full custody because she is unhappy with my parenting style?

She could. But the better question is would she win? Probably not just on the grounds that she doesn't like your parenting style alone. She'll need...

Am I liable to pay for parked car scratch by my six years old son?

You're liable and he gets to choose where it goes.

Sidewalks are generally owned by the government, not the property manager. It's probably okay to smoke there. But not anywhere else on the property...