How can our lawyer find out my husbands ex-wife's salary if she refuses to give the information for child support modification?

I suggest that you file for request for documents under rule 34 against the ex-wife, and then subpoena her current employer for records of her salary.

You will have to pay the arrears until they are paid off.

Ok. If fathers was not probated & don't know where it is. Shouldn't someone have a copy somewhere other than family.

A copy of the will may exist. If five years has elasped, then the will cannot be probated, and an administration would have to be filed.

How can we go about getting a paternity test ordered in Alabama

I agree with the above answer, if the husband was married to the mother, then he is presumed to be the father of the child. If not then paternity...

Will DHR defer closing a case simply because of pregnancy?

There is no way to say with 100% certainty. The DHR feels that you are doing well enough to have the case dismissed, seemingly very soon. I...

What do I do about my deceased fathers will never being probated?

It depends on whether your father owned everything as joint tenants with right of survivorship. In this instance the will would not have had to be...