Can I sue the HOA for negligence/breach for violating the bylaws which clearly state they "protect homeowner investments"?

You probably have a monetary claim against the developer but not the HOA. However, you may sue the HOA to force it to carry out its obligations...

I need an AGGRESSIVE attorney that advocates for FATHERS parental rights and custody. Any suggestions?

I believe this question has previously been answered.

Can you be evicted in three days?

No; this would not be in conformity with the requirements of Alabama law.

Mom wanted to move back to her home state of Penn with my son (legally married) He stayed behind. Now she wants divorce

Your son can simply file for divorce in Alabama and have custody determined.

If you are issued a tax deed can you take possession of the property? If not when, and what steps do you have to take.

No. My best recollection is that after three (3) years, if the property is not redeemed by the owner, you would then own the property.

Since my divorce 6 yrs ago I have been living with my parents til recently. Can they change the locks & throw away my stuff?

You parents would need to evict from from the premises. However, if your goal is to recover your property law enforcement may assist you with this...

My father's wife's son & his spouse are seeking guardianship of my elderly father. How can I prevent this? I live out of state.

It sounds as though your father is in need of a guardian. There is no real way to stop it; however, you can certainly ask that you be appointed...

Can I make my ex boyfriend move out of my house?

If he has been living with you for 6 years you will most likely have to evict him to force him to leave. You should consult with an attorney to...

What happens in Alabama if he does not show for paternity testing?

A default judgment may be entered against him - meaning you get what you are asking for (i.e. paternity established, court order for child support,...

The answer to your question will be determined based on a number of different factors. You should consult with a family law attorney.