What all can they charge him with and is the combined bond amount customary? What kind of jail sentence is he looking at.

Yes it is customary. A bond amount is set for each charge that he has against him.

Is this felony portion of my record on my background, do I really need to go through the whole process do expunge this?

If you plead guilty to the reduced charge, then you will not need to go through the expungement process because you wold not qualify for it. ...

Is the police report accessible even after being dismissed or all of these years?

Be honest but do not go into great detail. It sounds as if you do not remember a lot of the details, and that is fine. I would stick along the...

Does the father have to show prove that the girl is underage in a case like this?

I have heard of this happening and it is likely a scam. I would stop communicating at once with them and not speak of this case with anyone, other...

How can I get a date a warrant was signed from district court

You can try calling the agency that issued it and see if anyone will give you info over the phone. Some counties have a Warrant Detail who can tell...

You can have charges against you without having a chance to give "your story". The police don't have to question you about it. They can take...

I want to know what the chances of me going in Tuesday morning with a lawyer and only getting house arrest or probation?

You should speak with a criminal defense lawyer in your area and tell them the situation. Hire an experienced lawyer and let them guide you through...

Can you plead not guilty (because you're not) and do a diversion program to avoid a court hassle?

To enter into a Diversion Program, you will have to plead guilty so that they have that as leverage over you in case you do not finish the program....

Do we ignore these letters? Is it a scam ?

It is not a scam, it is a potential civil lawsuit that could come about. My guess is that nothing will come of it, but if someone is eventually...

Would this be worth contacting an attorney to shut this place down? This is like the 45th strike against them.

A criminal law forum is not your best bet to post this question. If you decide to speak with a lawyer, it should be someone who handles civil work.