This is a tough question. I have never encountered this in 10 years of working closely with these Injunctions. You may have to do your own legal...

I agree with my peers that New Jersey has jurisdiction. Best wishes to you.

It is likely that the attorney will be given leave to amend the Answer if good cause exists. Good luck.

Can I send a personal letter to a magistrate before the hearing with personal facts of the case

No, you cannot.

What happens if a defendant in a divorce proceeding does not show up for court?

A default can be entered unless there are children involved and custody is still at issue.

What happens when a summons can't be served

You may want to attempt Substitute Service. Good luck.

My ex spouses attorney filed a continuance for our conciliation hearing. I am acting pro se, do I need to file the papers?

Sometimes Pro Se litigants get overlooked when cases are scheduled. Call the office and let them know you want to participate. Good luck.

Can I send a personal letter to a magistrate before the hearing with personal facts of the case

No. You cannot have Ex Parte communication with a Judicial Officer. It will be returned to you, unread.

Is family law, estate planning, and probate law the same is there a way to find out if a lawyer has ever represented a probate

Look at her AVVO profile and see what she reports as her area of practice.

Am I legally required to let a roommate's friend (who is living with us now) in the house if he scares me?

You need to evict them through the legal process or move.