Does the estate(will) or grantors trust have ownership over the design and wording of headstone?

the closest family member(s) should make that decision.

What can I do?

I suggest that you consult an estate attorney to review the trust. He or she can advise you on what to expect re accountings - as specified in the...

Can a beneficiary of a trust request an accounting of a irrevocable trust for events that may have occurred 40 yrs ago?

You are responsible for the assets that you received as trustee. You are not responsible for prior accountings, etc. Please consult an estate...

II have remarried, but I have 2 sons from my first marriage. Can I disinherit them ?

You can disinherit them. As an estate planning attorney, I see many families who want to disinherit family members. No one, with a few...

Is the role of the co-executor only to make sure that the executor follows the will as it is written.?

Co executors are supposed to act together. Each person gets assets as listed in the Will. Executors can be paid for being executors - but they...

Does she need legal guardianship for her own baby?

First, a parent is the legal guardian of a child. Therefore, mother is legal guardian of her baby/ Your other questions have to be answered by an...

An executor acts according to the terms of a Will and has nothing to do with the Trust. A Trustee acts according to the terms of a Trust. If a...

I’m a legal guardian for an adult with developmental disabilities, how can I no longer be his guardian ?

You can resign. Then, the court can appoint a new guardian.

Can my daughter who is 17 and has been adopted come baack to maternal home at 17 legally without emancipation? She's beingabused

When a child is adopted, the birth parents are no longer the child's parents and the child should use the last name of her adopted parents. The...

I am named as my brothers executor of his Will Can I continue to defend and or settle any claims on his behalf?

You need to open his estate to become executor. Then you can act on his behalf as his personal representative.