Is there anyway to settle on a debt like this or have the monthly payments reduced?

Your auto insurance company may be responsible for the payments - - - or the auto insurance company for the other vehicle may be responsible. Talk...

Is my widowed mother responsible for paying any bills that ins does not cover since she did not sign anything re his care?

Your father's estate is responsible for his medical bills. Your mother is not responsible.

Who gets my moms 401k if my grandma died before my mom as she was the only beneficiary on that account & with what legal doc.

the 401(k) will go to mom's estate. This means you must open a probate estate in California. I suggest that you talk with an estate attorney to...

Can I get power of attorney while they are married since she abandoned him

Only your father can give you his power of attorney, if he has capacity to execute it. You should consult a guardianship attorney to see if you...

How long do i wait for the trustee to send me a copy of the trust.The beneficiaries are 82. 80 and 78.

You should have received a copy of the trust by this time. Please consult an estate attorney in Hawaii.

Will they be able to take what was his out on my home?

His parents are his legal heirs, so that will be able to take his belongings. If you bought things together, those items should remain with you.

Can I intervene? Can I have her declared incompetent? Can I relocate her?

I agree with the other attorneys, but I have an additional concern. If your mother is a :fall down drunk" she should not be driving a school bus....

Can I get extra income for taking care of a mental disabled adult 43 year old man

I know of no federal government benefits for the situation you describe. Your son may be eligible for government benefits, but those benefits...

It's unlikely that you can get power of attorney because the only person who can give it to you is your son. You can try to get guardianship. The...

Does my niece have the right to make decisions? And will this property end up in probate court?

This is a case that should end up in probate because there are too many relatives involved. From what you have written, it appears that the true...