I need info how to find a divorce lawyer

You should try to contact Legal Aid or the Bar association in your county. They can give you names of attorneys who might take your case. Failing...

I filed for divorce in 1988 after my husband fled the country and i had 3 children. My ex has now been granted a VISA /

It is not clear by your statement whether your case is still open. That would be highly unusual but if not refile and yes you can ask for alimony....

In divorce my credit card are in my name but she has signing rights is the debt all mine or both

Within the divorce the debt is considered marital and will be divided or allocated. However only you will be liable to the credit card company....

Opposing Attorney not playing by the rules

The easiest way is to advise the Judge of what is going on at a Case Management Conference. You should schedule one as soon as you can.

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Recently divorce the divorce decree stated that the property owned in the state of new york should be sold, all bills related

Your Final Judgment which ordered the sale is enforceable with the Court. You will need to file a motion to have this occur.

Can I oppose to the mother of my kids to take them out of state for a vacation for almost 3 months (probably lying though)?

As stated by the other lawyers it depends on what your Final Judgment or Settlement Agreement states. If this long a trip was not provided for then...

My lawyer has not started my case due to schedule , can I use another lawyer for my divorce case having a retainer in the mix.

Yes. If the lawyer you hired has not filed anything then another lawyer can step in. Your retainer is a matter of the fee agreement but if the...

While separated, can one spouse prevent another from having guests in (or on the property of) a co-owned family home?

The party in possession has the duty to properly maintain the home. The issue is not who is at the home but how it is being maintained. If the...

Can my husband file charges against me for writing a check to pay off my car that is in his name?

Signing one's name to an account on which you are not legally authorized can be a crime. You should consult with a lawyer before doing so. You have...

My x has made a hardship withdrawal against his 401k , will that affect my QDRO order once I submit it to the Benefit Admin?

If your Husband made the withdrawal after the order was entered and it left less than half remaining for you then you will need to address the...