When does a Warrant affidavit become an actual warrant, and how will I know?

Law enforcement or anyone else involved will not share information on a warrant while an investigation is ongoing. As counsel stated, your son...

Can dcf take my kids if they were not present when me and my boyfriend fought?

They can and basically did although they're with their grandparents. I suggest hiring a family/domestic violence lawyer to not only deal with DCF...

Yes. Cybersex with a minor is illegal, jailable and could usher you into a world of being registered as a sexual offender for life.

What can I do to avoid being arrested at random and how can I go about the situation without having to spend time in jail?

Your fears may very well come true. What to do? Hire a criminal defense attorney in the county in question immediately. You most likely will...

Should i wait till monday to meet dcf with my kids until my lawyer is available to be with me or represent me?

Absolutely deal with DCF with your lawyer. As counsel stated, that's why you hired him or her. DCF needs no help from your mother-in-law in...

You cannot fire your PD and be appointed another PD. You can, however, hire private counsel.

Can a car be towed with missing tag in residence before there is a warning sticker put on the car ?

Yes. A car without a license plate can be immediately towed as illegally parked or repossessed with or without a tag.

Anybody is allowed to look up your spouse's criminal history, including your probation officer. Criminal histories are public knowledge.

Have your lawyer request any body cam footage from the State. If you don't have a lawyer, then get one. You need a lawyer.

What to do with my 17 old daughter

Unless she has been emancipated by a court, then, as a minor, she is subject to your authority as her parent. You are free to exercise...