How can I stop the POA (sibling) of our Mothers' Revocable Living Trust from spending Mom's money inappropriatly?

In addition to Attorney Frederick's answer-you need to act on the last three words of your question-I NEED HELP-yes you do-Hire an attorney to...

I am trying to get gaurdianship of my niece my mom is her legal guardian and she cant handle her so she wants me to take her.

You would need guardianship attorney to assist you. Your mom would resign and you would petition to be appointed. The court will do what is in...

Dad died Dec 11 07.How can we expose the Trustee's from breaking every probate code there is Multi Millions Estate.I'm poor.

You would need an estate or trust litigation attorney to prove your case.

Usually name the beneficiares directly unless they are minors or you want to stretch the distribution over time. If so-special language is required...

If the check is made out to the trust-the trustee should open a trust account and reissue the check to you.

Can i become primary medical poa for my mother if the primary was not reachable in an emergency?

It depends on the language in the POA and what level of proof is required to prove the first choice is unwilling or unable.

How do i find a non family member to be a power of attorney for my alchoholic brother who is currently in assisted living.

You might google-home care nurses. You will find many agencies that provide services that might fit your needs. If you contact them and they do...

Is legal Power of Attorney' good enough' to enroll my grandson in school and make medical decisions? we live in Oklahoma

Yes-you can usually use a power of attorney with health care powers to enroll in school and make health decisions. it is usually too difficult for...

A curator is appointed by a Judge as a interim step until the personal representative can be appointed and granted "letters of anministration". A...

Yes-it doesn't appear your cousin was an interested party.