Signing property back to father

You need to see an attorney-the court (guardianship) must be concerned that the property was signed over in an improper way. See an attorney to...

Does she have rights over my lifetime rights?

The will does not take your lifetime rights away. Also-the most common reason to contest wills are undue influence, incompetence, and/or fraud.

If annuity pmt was issued after death but before proper docs filed should each heir gain immediate possession of that money?

The annuity company will claim that they were not notified and made a proper distribution. It would be hard to argue that point. Review the...

is there a way I can get proof of who his medical power of attorney is? Can I fight my aunt if needed for

The most common way to contest a document is to prove incompetence, incompetence, or fraud. If successful-you would then need a guardianship.

Meet with an estate/probate attorney to open up a probate case as suggested.

Can i go after my grandfather who was the Custodian of my inheritance and never gave me what belonged to me?

Demand and accounting by certified mail. If unsuccessful-hire an attorney to be your advocate.

Do I have any recourse against the lawyer and notary?

Did your mother pass away? If not-is she still competent? If competent-she could make a new will or trust. If deceased-the most common way to...

My opinion Even if it was allowed-the trustee would not be making a prudent decision.

Will I automatically be my elderly mother's Guardian with all legal rights of the guardian if I am her Healthcare Representative

It should be enough-but you might have to submit your documents in court to avoid the guardianship appointment.

My question is what right does a judge have to order beneficiaries to incur a cost or expense in settling this estate?

I agree -mediation will not cost much and it is a good idea.