How to stop being executor

You can resign-notify the next one in line to see if they will accept the job. If not-they can resign and then ask the court to appoint someone.

Can boyfriends family take his items after death

Appears truck would be yours because of joint ownership. The family would be entitled to whatever clothing he owned.

Can some of the beneficiaries of my Last Will and Testament also be the witnesses to my signature on same?

My general rule is to never let an interested party be a witness to a will. Also-I don't allow interested parties that are favored in a will to be...

Where would I find an attorney to assist me in finalizing my Mothers assets while living out of state?

Sure-Find an attorney using the "Find a Lawyer" tab on Avvo

Do I have to probate a will if all my husband had were personal belongs such as clothes, cd's etc?

Usually only titled assets need to go through probate. I assume the will left everything to you.

Why would they need me to sign these papers if my aunt has a will specifying who gets what?

Why not call the attorney that sent the papers to you and ask for an explanation. If you are not satisfied-hire you own attorney to advise you.

Is it proper for a hospital/dr. to make decision when I have medical POA for my mother, and she is unable to make decisions. ?

The medical POA should be honored. Discuss with the attorney that prepared the document and see if he/she can assist you.

Do they need to go to Court to bypass me, and isn't it proceeds of sale, not physical house they inherit? What should I do?

The attorney for the estate should be your attorney only-representing you the executor. You and your attorney should be in control. Have a...

I agree with mt colleagues -you have it correct.

What kind of lower do we need to look for and do we have to have the death certificate before we can get the power of attorney

You need a estate planning/ probate lower.