Is there any legal way that my husband could divorce me without my knowledge of it?

Maybe he did service by publication. Check the court dockets and hire an attorney. If he fraudulently served you, you may be able to revisit it.

Felt that son and myself were searched without probable cause after son violated seat belt rule.

You can file a motion to suppress. As to whether it will be succesful requires a lot more info. The seat belt would give them grounds to stop.

Filing our own divorce papers when my spouse had a child by someone else

You are presumed to be the father. You are going to have to prove that you are not. There is a dna test in your future.

Is it possible to request a specific attorney for a court appoint lawyer??

You can ask, but you ain't getting it.

IS THERE LAWS AGAINST YOUR SCHOOL DISCLOSING YOUR INFO TO LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICERS?...

Didn't you already ask this question? Yes they can give information. Look on this website's Find A Lawyer.

I dismissed my divorce, but, something very wrong is going on here. Please help.

Did the guardian know that you dismissed the case? Sounds like the gal submitted a bill plus what they anticipated the bill would be to finish the...

Yes youcan still be charged.

How do I answer the summons?

You need to hire a local attorney.

It may be private property but could be dedicated public or contractually regualted by police.

How can someone be held in custody for a drug charge someone else owned up to?

Drugs can be possessed by more than one person.