If I commit a crime before I'm placed on probation. If I turn myself in during probation. Is it still VOP?

A vop is one of the most serious issues in the eyes of a criminal court. I do not think you violated probation though because you missed court...

I would be very careful dating someone under age. YOu are correct - minors do not have the capacity to consent and in the eyes of the law, you...

You can motion the court to allow you to buy out (possibly up to half) of your community service hours. Usually the rate is 10.00 per hour

Can I have my entire criminal record expunged with 3 separate and unrelated arrests if all charges were dropped?

Unfortunately not - Florida only allows for one expunge or seal per lifetime

Adjudication withheld on misdemeanor paraphernalia charge / Misdemeanor drug charge dropped

It could show up depending on the background software. You are eligible based on the facts you laid out to seal your record

Can I have an arrest removed from my record if I was not convicted?

In Florida provided you have no convictions prior to or since this incident you would be eligible to petition to expunge this from your permanent...

STOP POSTING FACTS ABOUT THIS INCIDENT - GET AN ATTORNEY ASAP!

I was arrested for aggravated battery at theme park, it was self defense?

I advise you to get an Attorney - do not go this alone. These are very serious charges

Expunged record from 30 years ago but personal copy was taken by ex wife 12 years ago. Can she use it against me?

An expunged record is erased and therefore, "as if it never happened". I would consult with a Slander/Defamation Attorney because your x wife is...

Can I expect any legal or criminal problems?

Contact Insurance and let them know a ticket was not issued. I do not see anything criminal in this scenario.