Disability - Chronic Blood Disorder - Fetal if not taken care of. Cannot afford healthcare.

It is not clear from your post what your condition is like now. You should consult with an attorney to discuss your options.

I need a specialized attorney you works for people who need the support of the physical disability network to live.

You can easily find why by using this and other websites. Have free consultations and decide on which atty fits your needs.

What are my chances of getting SSD or ssi with a little over a year of records

Your atty has the best knowledge of your case. We would have no idea.

My husband is decease and i am putting in for my own social security and retirement, will i get his also/

No you can't get both. But you should talk to the SSA about your option to suspend one while collecting the other. It may increase your pension.

What benefits can one get after 5 months of employment

None of which I am aware. Report the crime to the pklice

In the early 90's I was made payee for my son when I became disabled by Social Security. In 1996 my exwife claimed this status.

You get a lawyer and file and appeal before expiration of the appeal period.

Are my grandchildren eligible for SSI?

Only if they are disabled and meet the standards for shildhood disability.

You may want the child protective worker to request them from the mother. It would be good to have her denial on record. Copies can be requested...

Social Security Disability - Getting SSI for the 5 month SSDI waiting period

Yes you are right but it would be best if onset date was earlier so you could get ssdi instead of ssi.

What can I spend my child age 10 SSI on as Rep Payee???

Play it safe and keep records. Attribute. A pro rata share to general expenses.