Why do the SS office tell you in writing that if you can prove that the overpayment is not your fault that it can be waived?

You can "sue" by filing an appeal and requesting that they suspend collection until the appeal is decided.

Post this under criminal law.

Twenty-three year old disabled child

The 23 year old is an adult and will have to apply. Have you considered trying to get Vocational Rehabilitation services for him to see if he can...

Can a company refuse to hold your job pending a court case involving theft from said company?

IF you have a contract, take that to a lawyer to see what you can do.

My brother estranged died10-26-13 in ca no children no spouse law concerning burial requirements I live in il am I liable

You are not legally liable.

Should I pursue legal counsel.?

Any medical problems as a result?

Will i get jail time?

It is possible. Get an attorney to help straighten all this out.

I received a notice of right to have exemptions designated, i dont own but one vehicle, i rent, and received social security,

This is really a civil law question regarding collection of judgement. Mr. Lupisella's answer regarding SS money is correct.

Someone told us to petition the court for dependency of our child. What difference does it make?

This is not clear. what role did the child's lack of SS number have in the fathers denial? Are you applying for something for the child or waiting...

Social security disability benefits

It can take a year or more. He should get an attorney to help his case.