In FL how long after an atty filing suit does he have to serve

You must file the lawsuit with in 4 years from the date of the event giving rise to the claim. Once filed you have 120 days to serve the summons...

If I complete DUI school with in 6 months but unable to complete alcohol treatment until after 6 month mark will it be VOP?

Unless your were told that yo MUST complete both with in the first six months it should not violate you.

I will be 2 months late on rent and my LL wants me out by the 17th if I can't pay? I just need til the 30 what do I do?

Depending on how aggressive the attorney handling the eviction is, you could conceivably make it to the 30th before they get an order of eviction....

Got a shoplifting letter with $200 fine stating she had 30 days to pay. Doesn't paying concede guilt?

You need to evaluate the case against her in the criminal court. If that case is dismissed or she is found not guilty you can fight the $ 200 fine.

My son was arrested and charged with felony theft, in Jacksonville, FL. Deferred adjudication, and probation for 5 years.

Yo need to locate attorneys both in the jurisdiction where her physically is and more importantly where the probation is.

My daughter received a photo red light violation. The car is registered in my name. She lost the paper. I am trying to pay it.

Hire a local traffic attorney in your area. The ticket will convert to a uniform citation within the system soon.

Finding a probation offer in a federal case.

You should contact the department of probation try this http://www.usprobation.com/

If the problem is legitimate and yo have given the proper 7 day notice. Yes, you can terminate the lease if they do not comply.

What can be done?

What you have described is not illegal. There is nothing to make issue about except he prefers young legal woman.

Is there a free case search site for West Virginia? (Like mdjudiciarycasesearch)

Seems this is a question a WV lawyer should be providing a response.