Yes, your customary divorce in Nigeria is affecting your pending i130 and i1485.

Try with what documents you have and see what happens with DMV. It is crucial and important you follow up with USCIS for explanation and feedback.

The marriage document must be official and acceptable in WA to be accepted by USCIS.

Nonprofit legal groups or associations around the area may be a starting point.

If you withdrew your asylum application and AOS via marriage, it is unlikely this would be a problem at naturalization stage.

It is highly recommended you retain an immigration attorney to provide guidance. Removal proceedings is an important matter.

You may initiate an NVC inquiry to make needed correction.

Living in a subsided housing does not constitute public charge. Whether the $200 is counted as rent or not is irrelevant. It appears you may not...

What is your US immigration status and what is your goal? additional information is required.

Clearly a violation of your asylee status. Specifically, the consequences of your actions are unknown, but will be severe.