Does he have legal rights

That depends on whether or not the non-biological father was married to her mother at the time she was born. If that's the case usually legal...

Can a father sign over his rights on his own? and if so does he still have to pay support? even if they are not being adopted?

In order to have any chance to terminate terminate his parental nights your husband would most likely need to adopt them within the same process. ...

Can I file an emergency bankruptcy to stop a foreclosure auction of my house to get time to sell the house properly?

Motivating factor is commissions. Short sale won't protect you from 1099. Better to file bankruptcy.

My former spouse owes me 3 months worth of alimony , what are my rights ? and what should i do

In order to enforce alimony ordered by a court you would need to re-open your dissolution case by filing a motion for contempt with grounds that...

The mother of my child is terminating her rights to our daughter. Can my mother (her gradparent) become the adoptive mother?

Yes, that is a simple relative adoption. Any adoption attorney can assist you with that.

Yes. Either spouse may live with who they want once they are separated pending the divorce.

What should I do?

Deposit the amount owed into the court registry and inform the lawyer.

I'm trying to find out if I'm trying to adopt my granddaughter is the adoption unit suppose to appoint an attorney to me?

You can hire a private adoption attorney which will make the process much easier and quicker since it's a relative adoption. You probably don't...

Do I have an argument during my hearing to state that my child does not live with the mom but rather her parents?

The mother should not receive the support, and in fact, yes the grandparents should. You should contact an attorney to help you with this, as...

I agree, you need to seek an attorney for legal advice or start looking for a new place to live.