If she wants to get a divorce and I do not, can I petition the court to have her pay my legal expenses?

Yes you can petition the court to award attorneys fees, but if the reason for doing so is that you do not want the divorce, that is not sufficient...

He thinks he isnt the father but wont take test to see and keeps avoiding being served, what will happen?

Why is he avoiding service? If he is not the father then it should not be an issue. If he is the father, then he should take responsibility for his...

Do step parents play a role in determining parental responsibility?

I understand you may not be able to afford an attorney, but have you at least consulted with a local attorney. There are plenty attorneys, many...

Illegal nonchild support deductions from payroll company?

Is it back on track? If so, then why don't you just make up the difference which you were planning on having deducted anyway and pay the overdue...

Can I move out of state, my daughter hs been with me her whole life and nothing in court that states custody?

Duplicate post. As stated in other response, if he files a paternity action, then yes he can contest you moving out of state with the child.

Can I move out of state with my daughter we have established paternity and he pays child support but nothing in court of custody

If you were not married and a paternity action has not been filed then he does not have legal custodial rights established. So yes you could move,...

Do I have to go through the courts

Without a paternity petition filed and a court action completed establishing his parental rights, a time sharing schedule, child support, etc....

Please make sure you do not include the financial documents with the actual court filing as you do not want those filed with the court. But when...

Can I file an amended Certificate of Compliance of Mandatory Disclosure?

You are correct, an amended version will be acceptable, or sometimes it is titled "Supplemental" Certificate of Compliance with MD.

Can i subpoena a guy my wife has been talking to behind my back and if so what happens if I have proof but he lies?

I agree with my colleagues - I am not sure what subpoenaing him is going to do to benefit you unless it brings out the fact that she dissipated...