What am I suppose to do when I already get treatment from a mental health hospital and I am still not getting what I want ?

This entire post does not make much sense to me. You are apparently dissatisfied with the justice system. It does not appear to me that this falls...

It is public knowledge. It can be used by anyone. Go see a private criminal defense attorney about getting it sealed or expunged.

I do not believe you will go to jail for this, if it was a traffic ticket, but would need to read the notice of hearing.

Can I get 2 camera tickets dismiss because I didn't run red light

Hire a ticket lawyer in your area. They are apparently very inexpensive.

Domesticate the Il judgment and then enforce it.

This is a mess. What I think you might need to do is domesticate the judgment from Colorado, and then modify it.

What rights does he have?

You say that paternity has been established, but how was that done? Did the court enter an order declaring him the father and ordering shared...

Adultery does not even come into play in a divorce unless there are marital assets wasted away on the lover.

Can I sue my ex wife and her lawyer for emotional duress which resulted in my suicide attempt?

No, you cannot sue them for duress as causal damage.

I'm wondering why so much for family court

It depends upon the attorney. You have to find a way to pay the attorney. Some are more expensive than that.