Probably, or it can be are the answers that I would give you.

I would have to know more to be able to answer your question. Have you called to ask the clerk?

How can I legally stipulate the custody of my children if something happens to me??

Your question makes me want to ask many questions to you and get answers, so that I can answer you fully. But this forum does not lend way to...

how long do points stay on your record? Do traffic points count well Do they disappear?

Surely, this is regarding what has happened in some other state.

Perhaps. That is about the only answer that I can give you. But it probably would not mean much.

Can a fathers rights be stripped from him before he has even been proven the father?

You already have an attorney, right? Ask your attorney. I would have to read all relevant documentation in order to be able to answer your...

GAL report is VERY bad for son's mother and as a result I am scared for our son's well-being since hearing could be months away

This is precisely why you need an attorney immediately.

Can I hold my ex employer responsible for not paying child support as ordered? Even after given a non-compliance that she had to

Is there an income deduction order in place? I would have to read all relevant documents to give you a solid answer.

Child support & Alimony

After writing all of that, you question is whether you can get an emergency hearing. The answer is perhaps.

What would happen if we get married?

What you suggest is possible. But is it based upon fantasy or reality?