Is she violating my restraining order by throwing expensive items of mine away behind my back? What should i do?

This post makes no sense. What do you mean by a temporary injunction changing her address? I have never seen such an order.

Will the custody order be messy

Yes.

What can I do legally? Is it true I have to give him half of everything that I purchased before we were married?

Tell him good luck with that. You need to get a lawyer NOW and beat him to the punch. Protect yourself.

Can a plaintiff motion for summary judgment if the complaint includes a request for equitable tolling?

Most likely not. A summary judgment involves a decision as a matter of law when there are no facts in dispute.

How do I go about recanting a statement and adding facts about a domestic violence incident?

You can recant if you want. But you know what will happen if you do? The next time, and there WILL be a next time, that recantation will come...

I work and she stays home, how do I leave if I can't afford another residence plus the mortgage while divorcing an abusive wife?

You do it just like millions of other people do it. You find a way. Preferably with the benefit of counsel !

Either you sped or you did NOT speed. If you are adamant about it, then fight it. Don't be surprised when the officer shows up with a radar...

Issue with a judges honesty

No.

If I didn't fill out a police statement but my buddy did am i in trouble?

You're not in trouble - yet. I have a feeling that if you keep hanging around with this person, trouble will find you eventually.

My ex wife has an protection order filled against me on my kids in Nebraska. i am in Arizona. how can i fight it

People do not get protection orders out of thin air. There had to be a motion and a judge had to find a good reason to issue the order. If you...