If we're separated, can she take our children on a cruise out of the country without my permission? Neither one of us has filed.

Too bad.

What should I do if my case is closed but I didn't show up

Closed does not mean ended. You were probably found guilty in absentia. Have fun.

How can I check to see if she filed the papers to make sure we are legally divorced? Can I check with FL or WA vital records?

You can access the court's 'register faction' online. Each county has its own website. Choose the county where she filed the action.

Can "harmful behavior" associated with mental illness include minor criminal charges when applying for a visa?

Yes.

If I go on medicaid can the co-sponsor or sponsor be fined(or any other trouble)?

Yes.

Where can I find a lawyer that is willing to sue these parties if my evidence and claims are valid for damages

Unless it affects you directly, or indirectly as member, then you have no standing. You can use the 'Find a lawyer' tab at the top of the page.

Can I be terminated from dwi court if I obtain LDP through dor? if terminated can I face jail time?

Yes. Yes.

There is no reason to do this so lang as you can prove that the name on the deed is your former name.

Can I subpoena the MSPB Judge and USPS attorney in my upcoming trial?

Not the judge. And I STRONGLY suggest that you enlist the assistance of counsel.

Will a guilty plea and even the minimum 10 day jail sentence for driving while DUI related suspended violate my probation?

Yes.