At what point can we say the child was abandoned and adopt the child with confidence that we would win said court case?

If you want to prove abandonment the standard is higher than a typical case. It all comes down to the specific facts of the case. It can get very...

How do I change the last name of my children?

If you are married you could change the name with an adoption. It is unclear the length of time that your fiancé has been involved but it sounds...

Will I be required to pay child support for this child due to equitable estoppel if I file for divorce?

You should first not post any more factual information on this public site and seek the advice of an attorney as soon as possible. Best of luck to...

Is sons fathers behavior considered abandonment? (Second parent adoption/ Termination of Rights)

One of my first questions is why is he sending money if he has no desire to establish a relationship with his son. Perhaps he feels that he has an...

Do grand parents have rights

I agree with the prior answer that grandparents have very limited rights and each State determines the extent of the rights of grandparent's...

Is there a chance my husband could adopt my daughter?

Because every State has their own adoption Statute it is important to consult with an attorney who is familiar with the particular Adoption...

What do I need to do and can I get out of back pay possibly also do I need a lawyer

You should definitely retain an attorney to advise you. I would expect some level (perhaps not the entire eight year period) of past due child...

See above. We want to change his name to our last name. We are the only parents he has ever known

I agree with the answer from Mr. Scholl. Every State has their own adoption process and given the lack of contact/support for this child, I would...

Every State has their own Adoption Statute. For that reason it is imperative that you consult an attorney who is familiar with your State. In...

Once I do so does that eliminate back child support and future responsibility and support

The adoption of your child or children does not eliminate any past due child support obligations but it will eliminate all future child support.