Estate Planning Case No. 1
N/AOUTCOME: Successful Administration
When a second parent dies, it is a traumatic event for the remaining family. Worse yet the person who normally keeps disagreements in check is often the one who is no longer there. I was the attorne ... y for a trust administration with several adult beneficiaries who came to physical blows trying to divide the personal property. I had not drafted the Trust document but it was legally adequate if not inspired in its drafting. Between the children, their spouses and their children, the potential for the situation to explode into litigation and permanent estrangement was high. The real key to managing the administration was not how to divide the bank account or whether to sell the house; it was how to handle the pictures and the china. I took all of the family pictures (several albums worth) and had them digitally scanned at high resolution. Every family was able to have the entire picture collection and could reproduce the physical pictures whenever they wished. Dividing the original albums became much simpler. With regards to the one complete set of china and flatware that had been used for family gatherings, I purchased sturdy travel containers and the family agreed that whoever was going to host the next family gathering would take them from most recent event - tying the responsibility of hosting with the reward of using the heirloom china. Once the tensions over the pictures and china had been relieved, the beneficiaries drew cards (2,3,4 etc.) to determine the order in which the rest of the disputed items would be selected. With the choices going from high to low and then from low to high until I ran out of items that were contested. While not everyone was overjoyed by the outcome, they were talking, planning the next family get-together and no one wound up in court.
