You should retain a local criminal defense lawyer. These are very serious allegations with serious consequences.

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Billing by whom? A lawyer? A refrigerator repairman? An income tax deduction? You should probably repost your question.

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What do you want to do? That is the first question any lawyer will ask you. Are you contesting the divorce?

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"The person" should meet in private with an attorney and explain all of the facts. I doubt many juries would be sympathetic to a thief, but if the...

No one can answer this without far more information, and if you are reluctant to put such information on line you need to retain private counsel.

The judge is impartial and has it out for me Impartial is the opposite of "having it out for you." ..

She can't "drop the charges." Only the state can do that. She can make her desires known, but that's it.