You can try checking the court docket......

I have never heard of such a thing. Perhaps you are using the wrong term.

No. The burden is on you to know the requirements. No court is going to get involved in this.

You should engage a local education lawyer to assist you in your appeal.

You can refuse. They can fire you. You can quit.

If you are questioned by anyone, or if anyone tries to speak with you in anyway (including phone, email, text, etc.) say nothing. If it is the cops...

How do you know who stole it? That will be critical. If your uncle had insurance might be easier for him to just file a claim.

Sure she can sue. Then a judge can decide who is right.

Sure she can. And you can hire a lawyer and defend yourself. How about just not doing that?

Unless the package is extremely valuable a lawsuit is going to cost more than you will recover.