Unfortunately we can't train you to be a lawyer in a couple of paragraphs.

Speak to your divorce lawyer. Get a court order deciding who can use it during the divorce proceedings.

This is a Q&A forum. You have not asked a question.

Horribly tragic. This simple Q&A forum is not sufficient to really examine your case. You need to speak with a local civil rights or personal...

No you can't............................................................

Your lawyer knows everything about your case. We know nothing. Listen to them.

You are required to know, and comply with, the rules of evidence.

You keep asking these questions, you keep getting the same answer.

Nobody can answer what they will do. You have to wait.

When you say they are your client, are you a lawyer? If so, you know the answer. If not, you can't.