Yes you can. You can also seek a protective order.

Police staff? Store Staff? Details matter.

Can she call the cops? Yes. Will they do anything ? I have no idea.

Realistically, none. You would have to sue him to force him to refinance.

I am sorry for your loss, but there are no grounds for a lawsuit under these facts.

This is an open Internet site. You have provided way too many details. Nothing here is confidential. Speak in confidence to your own lawyer.

Whether or not there is a no contact order, most prisons prohibit victims from visiting.

And? This is a Q&A forum. You have not asked a question.

You probably did not have a case in 1996. You definitely don't have a case now.

This is one long run on sentence with no punctuation. I can't understand it.