If "she" is your prospective employer, it is her call.

Writing them back was not sufficient. You needed to answer the lawsuit. If you weren't properly served you can have a lawyer file a motion to set...

Can I be sued/go to jail for theft of over $1000 from T.J. Maxx? Yes and yes.

Can I sue a Licensed Hairstylist who took my deposit and is not responding for a confirmation appt? Yes

This is a Q&A forum. You have not asked a question.

These are questions the defendant needs to speak about with his lawyer. Not an open Internet forum.

You can't leave. Speak to a school counselor who can put you in touch with appropriate help.

This is a Q&A forum. You have not asked a question.

If the court was targeting you your charge would not have been downgraded.

None of us can predict but if you didn't show up in court there is a warrant for your arrest. TELL YOUR PARENTS.