I am sure such contact is prohibited. And also a very bad idea.

No it is not ok.............................................

This is a Q&A forum. You have not asked a question. Take it back. Problem solved.

You are asking complete strangers why you are getting a letter we haven't seen. We don't know.

Can they ask? Yes Can you refuse? Yes Can they fire you? Yes Can you quit? Yes

You called the police? This is a customer service issue. Ask for a refund.

We are volunteer lawyers on a Q&A forum. We have no idea if your dad had a will. Sorry for your loss.

Yes you could lose (not loose) your job.......................

Will an incorrect color listed on a speeding ticket invalidate the ticket? It has no impact.

There is no "exception" to the requirement to notify the government of the claim.