This is a customer service issue, and not a legal issue. Starbucks has the legal right to do what they did, even if it is stupid.

Your post does not contain a question. If you are seeking reimbursement of expenses, many states have funds for victims of crimes.

I am really not sure what you are asking. None of us knows if "this will be a problem in the future." Perhaps he just had a bad day. Happens.

It depends on numerous factors. Parent slapping a child, NCO slapping an enlisted soldier, NCO slapping an officer? Details matter.

While I find such language entirely inappropriate, it is not legally actionable. Hire another lawyer and move on. I am sorry for your loss.

Yes, you need to disclose it, and yes it will show up. Whether it will stop you from getting a permit is unknown.

If you are asking whether you can file a complaint with the state, the answer is yes. If you are asking about a lawsuit, I think that is a very...

This is not a law firm, but a Q&A forum. You will need to reach out to lawyers in your area and ask their rates.

No it is not "illegal" although certainly improper IMO. You should complain to the governing organization.

Consult with a local civil rights attorney about the likelihood of success and cost of a lawsuit. My guess is the bang won't be worth the buck, but...