What are my rights in this situation?

This is probably something to discuss with your doctor who can assist with coping mechanisms.

Please see the prior answers to this question. And stop stealing.

Is it a strategy to say I don't remember during deposition and at trial remember everything? How does this affect credibility?

Yes it affects credibility. But I am sure you are represented by counsel who can advise you.

Nobody can predict what the judge will ask you, but you have the right to not incriminate yourself. Get a lawyer, tell your mom, and stop stealing.

Do i have any actions I can take? Can I get my separation undone? Can I get the MEB reopened and completed?

Unfortunately I see these facts all too often. You need to have an attorney review your entire case. Most of us here on AVVO offer free...

What is going to happen now? Can he be punished? We do not know what to expect or what will happen.

I assume that the Board will be delayed due to his hospitalization but you need to speak to his attorney who is obviously much more familiar with...

I would respectfully disagree with my good friend Steve Shewmaker on one point. The Board for Correction of Navy Records does have the authority...

What are my chances of getting waivers for those disqualifying factors? What are my options?

Answer all questions truthfully. If a recruiter is asking you to lie, report it to his supervisor.

What is the best way to handle this situation. I really need help and I'm freaking out!!!

What is the best way to handle what situation? You don't provide any facts upon which to get an answer.

What kind of legal options do I have? What if I don't want to take the car to their mechanic?

The dealership is not under an obligation to explain to you the emissions laws. That is your responsibility.