If you are given an order to go to DRB, you have to obey that order. Speak to an attorney now so you know what to do, and what the ramifications are.

They will not pull your old polys, but you will likely undergo a poly for the clearance.

You will get some benefits with a GD. You will lose others, i.e. the GI Bill and VA home loan eligibility.

CAn my 16 yr old nephew chose where he live and how can he do that?

16 year olds cannot choose where they want to live. Until he is 18 he is subject to the court's jurisdiction, and there must be a valid custody...

It will depend on whether you get an Other than Honorable Discharge (no benefits) or a General Discharge (some benefits.)

Probably not, but you have to ask a recruiter. They are the subject matter experts.

Can I sue the Military to get my retirement before I reach 59??

I disagree with the other answers. There are limited circumstances under which you can sue the DOD, and this may be one of them, pursuant to what...

Am I eligible to reenlist?

You need to address this question to a recruiter, not a lawyer. They can discuss a waiver of the RE code, and see if they can find a slot for you.

There is no definitive time limit. You should seriously considering retaining civilian counsel who can advocate on your behalf prior to charges...

Is this a good case?

If your goal is to sue the Army for damages, you can't. If your goal is to upgrade your discharge, have a lawyer review your records and give you...