How could I get honorably discharged from NG?

You have no grounds to get out. As such, you have to honor your commitment.

How do I get the military and my ex to abide by my joint custody rather than my ex's family care plan?

The military won't get involved in a custody dispute. You should discuss it with a local custody lawyer to see if you have grounds to change the...

With a court martial conviction, a general discharge is going to be very difficult to upgrade.

Can the National Guard Bureau investigate me after being released?

Yes they can investigate you and, in fact, they are apparently. You need to go to the Fort Bragg TDS office and you should seriously consider...

How much does my husband have to give me from his BAH and from his normal pay?

See my previous answer. Go to the base legal office.

Yes you are. Contact his commander and go to the base legal office.

Can an employer sit you down and tell you effective immediately you're being moved from one position to another with no warning?

Unless you have a labor agreement or written contract to the contrary, yes.

In 1998, I was discharged under honorable conditions(general). how do I change it to honorable?

A general discharge for drug use is pretty standard, so an upgrade is a long shot, absent some extraordinary circumstances.

These are questions for recruiters, not lawyers. You have no legal right to join the Army.

What would be the cost to have a military law experienced laywer review my case and help put together a review packet upgrade?

The attorneys who answer questions on AVVO are all private attorneys, and we all charge different fees. Most of us offer free consultations. You...